Blah blah blah, regarding this explanation of Bl's, she's leaving a big part of the equation; a parent has to be willing to participate in the family court process to be reunited with their child/children. xxxxx
"It was asked how you deal with a child who doesn't want to visit. I'll tell you how we deal with this in Los Angeles. First, we determine whether there is some kind of severe abuse going on such that it's causing grave emotional detriment and the child should be permitted no visits. That is so rare you almost never see such a situation, only usually in the rare case where a father rapes his biological daughter. Assuming that is not occurring, the child is put in therapy with a licensed therapist, who over time builds rapport with the child as they discuss the issues between themselves and the parent. It is also advised the parent also does individual therapy. Then, when the child's therapist recommends it, they do a trial visit with the parent in a therapeutic setting, a short one, followed by some sessions of conjoint therapy. As the child gets more comfortable the visits and conjoint sessions become more frequent until the child is ready for monitored visits outside a therapeutic setting. The first few visits may only involve the child sitting there and staring at the clock, but over time, they get better."
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And Tucker's Mom, I respect your passion and indignation about this. And I imagine there is plenty of room in your head and heart to champion other causes and injustices. This is a reality TV kids' blog, so that's what we're commenting about here. ///////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////
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The interviews and articles make him look worse. I can't decide what he is hoping to achieve but it's not working.
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Plain and simple. He wants back on TV. He said so in one of his many recent interviews. He's talking about making some kind of discovideo whatever and putting it on YouTube, hoping a TV network picks it up.
He also said something about to those who support him, thanks. To those who hate him "See ya on TV." He really thinks TV (entertainment field) is his forte, hence all the current interviews.
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Bingo! somebody can think over there!
That fits with everything Hoffman told me about Jon.
Over at Bl's they're all twiddling their toes in wonder at Jon's lack of action. Others are writing yards about their traumatic childhood experiences in order to excuse Jon not enforcing his visitation order. It's all okay and for the best that Jon has allowed three years of not seeing Collin to go by rather than upset him by an officer escorting him into Jon's care. This is the guy who made money by having RH film packing off the dogs while he called his kids to say goodbye to their pets,all the while blaming Kate. Yet, Bl's think Jon wouldn't call the police in the matter of visitation.
Ugh, once again they ignore Jon's own words to live in the world of imagination. Jon can't even go to the court to force visitation because his case is not the norm. Even if someone brought it up over there, Bl would put her interpretation on it to keep Kate as an alienator.
http://www.instagram.com/p/BA21XJYSF3q/
metcon_incHi Jon, I just watched your interview... You stated you hadn't seen your son in over a year... You get to see all the kids but one? Can't the court order Kate to allow you to see all your kids? It saddens me that you only see four at a time. dj_jon_gosselinYou think that would be the norm, but not in this case!
Sage, I'm sure you have been incredibly busy with your daughter and her daughter. I was very sorry to hear about losing one of the babies. I do hope your daughter is doing well.
I have never heard that there was a court order against Jon except for here. Would you share how you know this to be fact?
I do think it is telling that Jon never forces the issue in seeing Collin. Just like Jon never goes on Kate's property. I can speculate that Kate has an order for him not to come on it.
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I planned on making a new one this weekend.....I have been incredibly busy.
Blah blah blah, regarding this explanation of Bl's, she's leaving a big part of the equation; a parent has to be willing to participate in the family court process to be reunited with their child/children.
xxxxx
"It was asked how you deal with a child who doesn't want to visit. I'll tell you how we deal with this in Los Angeles. First, we determine whether there is some kind of severe abuse going on such that it's causing grave emotional detriment and the child should be permitted no visits. That is so rare you almost never see such a situation, only usually in the rare case where a father rapes his biological daughter. Assuming that is not occurring, the child is put in therapy with a licensed therapist, who over time builds rapport with the child as they discuss the issues between themselves and the parent. It is also advised the parent also does individual therapy. Then, when the child's therapist recommends it, they do a trial visit with the parent in a therapeutic setting, a short one, followed by some sessions of conjoint therapy. As the child gets more comfortable the visits and conjoint sessions become more frequent until the child is ready for monitored visits outside a therapeutic setting. The first few visits may only involve the child sitting there and staring at the clock, but over time, they get better."
FlimsyFlamsy has left a new comment on the post "TLC Block Party":
And Tucker's Mom, I respect your passion and indignation about this. And I imagine there is plenty of room in your head and heart to champion other causes and injustices. This is a reality TV kids' blog, so that's what we're commenting about here.
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LOL It is a hate Kate excuse Jon blog....own it!
Deliverence has left a new comment on the post "TLC Block Party":
The interviews and articles make him look worse. I can't decide what he is hoping to achieve but it's not working.
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Plain and simple. He wants back on TV. He said so in one of his many recent interviews. He's talking about making some kind of discovideo whatever and putting it on YouTube, hoping a TV network picks it up.
He also said something about to those who support him, thanks. To those who hate him "See ya on TV." He really thinks TV (entertainment field) is his forte, hence all the current interviews.
//////////////////////////
Bingo! somebody can think over there!
That fits with everything Hoffman told me about Jon.
Over at Bl's they're all twiddling their toes in wonder at Jon's lack of action. Others are writing yards about their traumatic childhood experiences in order to excuse Jon not enforcing his visitation order. It's all okay and for the best that Jon has allowed three years of not seeing Collin to go by rather than upset him by an officer escorting him into Jon's care. This is the guy who made money by having RH film packing off the dogs while he called his kids to say goodbye to their pets,all the while blaming Kate. Yet, Bl's think Jon wouldn't call the police in the matter of visitation.
Ugh, once again they ignore Jon's own words to live in the world of imagination. Jon can't even go to the court to force visitation because his case is not the norm. Even if someone brought it up over there, Bl would put her interpretation on it to keep Kate as an alienator.
http://www.instagram.com/p/BA21XJYSF3q/
metcon_incHi Jon, I just watched your interview... You stated you hadn't seen your son in over a year... You get to see all the kids but one? Can't the court order Kate to allow you to see all your kids? It saddens me that you only see four at a time.
dj_jon_gosselinYou think that would be the norm, but not in this case!
Sage, I'm sure you have been incredibly busy with your daughter and her daughter. I was very sorry to hear about losing one of the babies. I do hope your daughter is doing well.
I have never heard that there was a court order against Jon except for here. Would you share how you know this to be fact?
Thank you
I don't know it to be fact...just speculating.
I do think it is telling that Jon never forces the issue in seeing Collin. Just like Jon never goes on Kate's property. I can speculate that Kate has an order for him not to come on it.
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